Ceh.. tajuk macam Gossip Girl.
But its not about Gossip Girl and Georgyna is back for good?OMG!(Adreen spill no more or not a heart maybe broken)
About scandals.
Why do we refer two people who happen to date as scandal?
I find the word scandal is kinda harsh because to me, scandals or flings are temporary and you don't really have real feelings for your scandal.
Like this ex-scandal once told me "you are just my scandal, Ad"
and it did hurt to know that because at that moment I did totally fell for it.
So if my calculations plus experience is right a scandal can last between 3 to 6 months (which I wouldn't wish to happen at my state of happiness at the moment). Then find a new one. When the new one gets boring and the old one looks more interesting, go back to the old one.
Or even a more classic example, have a scandal with someone -> leave the scandal for a stable relationship -> relationship gets messy -> break up with a bf -> go back to the old scandal.
Why am I bringing up this issue?
Because something like this occured :
someone:ko dengan die ape cite? scandal eh?
me: err no.
someone: dah tu ko date ngan die.
me: memang la. tapi tu bukan scandal sebab aku ada perasaan kat die.
someone: so ko panggil tu ape?
me:entah la tapi bukan scandal la.
Basically, it does not mean if two people are dating they have to be scandals. They are not in a relationship but just dating. As simple as that.
3 comments:
have a scandal with someone -> leave the scandal for a stable relationship -> relationship gets messy -> break up with a bf -> go back to the old scandal.
haha. classic.
complicated nyer hidup ini :D
hope you get to know true love and not scandals or relationships that is vague.
I've never liked the word "scandal". To me it always indicated cheating, or something inappropriate. hmm.
thefreedictionary.com:
scandal: "A person, thing, or circumstance that causes or ought to cause disgrace or outrage"
I don't think how most ppl use the word "scandal" is accurate at all. Or maybe in our traditional society, dating without any form of permanent commitment is in itself a scandalous act?
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